permissions and kinks;

[biochemistry]

Short version:

• Kinsey 4.5 (lady-learning bisexual).
• Kinky/subby as fuck (yes to bondage and being dominated, shaky maybe to S&M).
• As shipping goes: yes to Daisy, yes to Bobbi, probably to the other women of the MCU, probably to Trip, there's a chance so if you have an idea let's talk about other MCU boys, honestly see below it's complicated about Fitz, and get all the Nazis away from her, like, yesterday.

Regarding kinks: 

• Yes: vaginal sex, oral sex (giving and receiving, preference for women involved in both, and queening very much allowed), fingering, B&D and D/s, sensory deprivation (blindfolds/gags), teasing, honor bondage, sensation play, dress-up, toys (ask for specifics), tribbing, temperature play (wax, ice), lingerie, body worship, hair pulling (or brushing), bathing
• Maybe: S&M, anal sex, biting, marking, spanking, orgasm denial, public sex, role reversal, shaving, suspension, service
• No: auditory deprivation, dub/non-con, whipping, watersports and other "bathroom" kinks, comeplay, vore, sounding, punishment/humiliation, being patronized, bloodplay, ageplay, caning, and anything else not mentioned here.

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Regarding partners and relationships:

• Jemma is about a 4.5 on the Kinsey scale.  She likes boys well enough, but it's very much easier for her to feel comfortable with women in a romantic/sexual way.
• She's very logical about how she approaches sex and particularly kink: it feels good and if you do it properly and intelligently it's a lot of fun, so why not?  And as far as kink goes, she will do and has done the research.  She knows what she likes (which is a lot of it).
• She does almost certainly need to be in at least some sort of relationship with someone to have sex with them, though.  She's not for one-night stands, which is no reflection on anyone else having them, they're just not for her; she's not clingy, but she's very affectionate and tender, and that tends to go less-well with strangers.
• She's very much a sub: when she says following the rules makes her feel nice, well, put two and two.  She's got the biggest praise kink imaginable.  She's not entirely opposed to learning how to play domme but it's not a thing she's done and not at all her instinct.  And she definitely tends to be a bit subby even not in proper scenes. She likes when people she likes boss her around fondly and call her a good girl.
• In season 5, Jemma spends several episodes imprisoned and enslaved by a space tyrant who used a largely-unexplained but insidious technology that rendered her deaf (to everything but his own voice). As such, while she's still quite fond of blindfolds and gags in the right circumstances, she is very resistant to auditory deprivation; she's also (even more) averse to situations that make her feel dehumanized and/or only valued for her compliance and/or put too much on display.

Regarding shipping:

• Instant yes (in canon): Daisy.  Also Bobbi. And I'm definitely willing to entertain things with Trip because I miss him a lot.
• Negotiable (in canon): assuming that canon encompasses the entire MCU, pretty much any lady is welcome to try (Melinda is almost certainly a given, likewise Sif and Elena; Natasha and Wanda, of course, are very loved; give me all-girl science alliances with Jane and Helen and Maya and etc. etc).  Oh, also Mike is a probability. Of the male Avengers, Thor is the most likely, but Steve and Sam could do too, depending on the situation, and Bruce is a possibility.
• And regarding Fitz: Fitz is a darling, and she loves him more than anything, really, but I am pretty adamant about playing them as queerplatonic soulmates.  At this exact moment I'm mostly only interested in their relationship, no matter its form, in a season one-or-analogous situation. He hasn't won himself any points in this writer's book for quite some time and I have no interest in threads that are just Jemma soothing away his manpain. And I want Framework!Fitz to stay the hell away from her.
• *my one exception to this knows who they are.
• Hard nos (in canon): Hydra. Anyone who was in their right mind honestly a member of Hydra is swiftly disinvited from relationships and sexual conduct with Miss Simmons, and this very much includes Grant Ward. This is a vehemently anti-SWW account. Also Tony Stark, Scott Lang, and fandom's precious white male antagonists can fuck right off. (Tony isn't exactly an antagonist and Scott isn't one, she just aggressively isn't interested.) Her chill is gone, and so is mine.
• "Types" (particularly for cross-canon): intelligent, caring, probably badass in one way or another (maybe not the obvious ways)?  Mostly important is that she's not gonna be up for shippy business with someone she can't trust (and I don't feel comfortable writing her with someone that I know she shouldn't trust, even if she doesn't know that).

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